What is In Case I'm Murdered LLC?

In Case I'm Murdered LLC empowers women who are in danger from an ex romantic partner by providing online education, resources, and support.

While many of these women are survivors of domestic violence, not all are.

Most are being stalked.

Many endure harassment and threats.

Some have already survived attempted murder.

They fear for their lives—and often for their children's lives too.

We stand beside them—offering knowledge, guidance, and a plan to stay safe.

Our Mission

We help women in danger from ex-romantic partners stay safe and take back control of their lives.

We provide life-saving education, practical resources, and ongoing support so women know how to protect themselves and their children in life-threatening situations. Through guidance, encouragement, and a strong community, we help women move from fear to power—because leaving isn’t the end of the story.

We proudly work alongside survivors, professionals, and communities to prevent intimate partner homicides, murder-suicides, and familicides.

Our goal is to have 5,000 women take the quiz each year—helping them recognize the real danger they face and guiding many toward the trainings they need to stay safer! Please help us share it.

Our Story

Even though April Hardy founded In Case I'm Murdered LLC, in 2024, it really began in 2012. In 2012 her life and her kids' lives were in danger from her ex husband and an ex boyfriend at the same time. It was necessary for her to study and learn in order to protect them.

What she found was that most people didn't understand the problem of intimate partner homicide threat. Many didn't believe that intimate partner murders really happened, except in extreme cases, somewhere else. She also found that there weren't really any resources devoted to it.

She felt very alone and she was terrified, but she was able to pull bits and pieces of information from different places together to help her little family. When she had survived the darkest period of her life, she decided to put what she had learned into a book. That way, she reasoned, if they did end up killing her, it wouldn't be for nothing. Other women could learn and be safe because of her research and experience.

As she wrote it, she unintentionally added another scary ex to her life. In 2018, while being actively stalked, she published In Case I'm Murdered; What You Should Know About Stalking, Domestic Violence, Sexual Abuse, and How to Stay Safe in print and ebook formats. In 2019, the audio version was published on Audible.

She quickly figured out that it's one thing to write a book, it's something else to market it. In fact, she kept running into a problem - most women weren't interested in learning about the topics in the book until they were already in danger.

In 2020 April slowly began learning how to do YouTube. She finally got some traction when she started teaching through real women's murder stories, but after a year of diving deep into the stories of murdered women, children, and even men, she felt like she had to do more!

She really wanted to create an online program for women whose lives are in danger, so that they could learn what they needed to have the best chance of surviving and protecting their little families. Not only did she want them to survive, but she wanted them to not fall into the trap of another dangerous relationship like she did. So she continued to learn.

Through that, the Surviving a Scary Ex Program was born. April wants women to survive and thrive! To that end, women are invited to utilize several tools:

the Does He Scare You Quiz - to find out if they have someone in their life who could murder them
the Will He Kill Me Webinar - a free recorded lesson that goes over threat assessment, your danger warning system, and whether or not to move
the Safety School Webinar - a recorded lesson where they can learn about home security, how to become a difficult target, online safety, violence, and stalking
the Scary Ex Survival System - our complete online program, where we help women create a personalized safety plan for their family, to be as safe as possible from a scary ex. With a built in online support system, weekly support calls, and a curriculum that is self-paced and accessible anytime, anywhere there is an internet connection, this program brings life changing results!